Wednesday, September 28, 2011

LIfe unexpected

today is a sad day

a colleague of mine just lost her husband this afternoon....

this morning she had a husband...her 2 small children had a father...and suddenly after lunch she is a widow and the kids are without a father....Sad :.(

for the rest of the day i was sad...and cried otw home from work thinking about how will life be for her and her children this few days..How would she answer her children when they ask when they father will get home....!how this life is not fair for the children who are 6 & 4

i know how ever sad this makes me...it's worst being her....

today i thought of little things...little things that we take for granted...the little sms that we never get to answer...then little hi how are you that we fail to say....the teh tarik time that we seem to feel a waste of someone's time...how i wish i could do it without feeling that i would disturb a family members or friend's time...cos as for me i know life is unexpected...!


so well..until i have all the time being alive...i'm gonna stop and smell more roses....look at more blue sky...and enjoy the wind blowing to my face....and most of all make time for my love ones...!

well peeps... please2 spend time or just reserve 30 minutes of meal time with anyone...i already lost one friend  in a young life....and to hear people saying that "I should have spare time or I should have answer his calls"....

life never seems to be fair...but the little that we have...we should learn to cherish it!...


p/s by the way the friend's husband died of heart attact and collapse while on this motobike on the way to work this afternoon.. He was 36....


heartnote:Hati ku sedih dan rapuh hari ni...life is unexpected...

10 comments:

kayau said...

sedihnya jane...we always take things for granted..should call home more often, call more, sms more, enjoy more, say hello more...life is short & unexpected..So sy confirm jadi pg douglas ship this weekend should go outing more too spend time with friends..

jenkays said...

doulos juvi..hehee...
ya sedih kan...durang bawa sya p lawat ni mlm tapi tia mo pigi sebab rasa sedih betul...kesian anak2...

Night said...

kenapa tia pandai buat corection ko neh juvi pasal tu "douglas"..hehehehe
takziah tuk kawan ko mare...
life is really unexpected..
mare, hai, how r u?
juvi, hai, how r u?

jenkays said...

haha..tu lah aku pun heran..dari smlm betul kan doulos..hari ni still douglas...takpa2 diampuni..

hi pare...life is unexpected so mari lah kita enjoy life as it is...!

kayau said...

hi nite & jane..hehehe sy rasa kapa tu lebih sesuai nama douglas ;p

jenkays said...

sya rasa kalau org doulos dengar mesti marah..pandai2 tukar padahal sudah lama nama tu..tapi sory mintak maap ada kesilapan kali ni punya kapal logos..

Dy said...

Erm... cik cik sekalian...

Memandangkan saya pernah berada di atas kapal DOULOS untuk beberapa bulan, jadi saya ada hak lah untuk buat pembetulan terakhir kan? :)

Kapal itu, namanya DOULOS. Dan ia memang sesuai bernama DOULOS sebab maksud DOULOS adalah "servant" atau "hamba" - bila mana, setiap krew kapal itu adalah hamba kepada Dia yang membawa mereka di atas kapal itu.

Jadi... heheheh... tolonglah... bukan douglas ya... :P

Dan seperti yang dikatakan oleh Cik Jen, kesilapan teknikal... yang baru ni, namanya LOGOS HOPE. Logos pulak maksudnya "Word". Kapal itu membawa Word kepada serata dunia tentang Dia.

Sekian terima kasih.

jenkays said...

nah kan juvi...ada maksud bah nama kapal tu..hehe...nanti ko beli sampan ko kasi nama douglas lah hahaha...

kayau said...

hahaha yalah..x apa sy mau kasih nama douglas cruise lah..

lv said...

huhuhu.... sedih betul ini cerita... T_____T *lap2 air mata*