life is suppose to be selfless and humble...
but when you have been brought up to always be selfless and humble...you tend to live a life...or should I say atleast try to be selfless...
Being Selfless is something someone should work hard on...and sometimes it just end up naturally...and as seems like natural even without noticing it....
Suddenly to be asked by someone (really close) :why are you so selfless...or Too Selfless...
sometime can make person who is selfless to end up to be a selfish person (completely)...it is not known why....but maybe it's like a reflex...like you telling a person all his or her life from the beginning was wrong...
try telling a selfish person the samething...I think the result will be opposite cos a selfish person will never understand why they should change anyway....
so the next time you see someone close to you being so selfless until it may seem it is hurting them please don't discourage...just complement...cos they are already having a hard time without wanting to acknowledge it...it's atleast better to have 1 more selfless person in your life then to add another selfish person...and have a less person who selflessly was your devoted friend....
foodnote:Bila org mau tolong biar mereka tolong aja...sebab mana tau membantu org dia rasa diri dia dibantu...tp jgn pernah ambil kesempatan sebab si kawan itu pun akan ada masa dia letih...Dan akan berhenti...Dan kadangkala bila berhenti itu akan menyebabkan hidup dia hilang pedoman sebab dia sudah tidak tau tujuan hidup dia yg selama ini...Dan ya...Maka kamu hanya hilang sorg sahabat...tp sahabat kamu hilang HIDUP dia...
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